March 12, 2008...4:47 pm

Abstinence — how’s that workin’ for ya?

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New York Times

The first national study of four common sexually transmitted diseases among girls and young women has found that one in four are infected with at least one of the diseases, federal health officials reported Tuesday.

Nearly half the African-Americans in the study of teenagers ages 14 to 19 were infected with at least one of the diseases monitored in the study — human papillomavirus (HPV), chlamydia, genital herpes and trichomoniasis, a common parasite.

That’s 25% folks, even higher for African-American teen girls.  Helloooo…?  Not telling our kids about sex, how it works, the risks, and how to protect themselves — in other words, abstinence-only — DOES NOT WORK.

Among the infected women, 15 percent had more than one of the diseases.

Women may be unaware they are infected. But the diseases, which are infections caused by bacteria, viruses and parasites, can produce acute symptoms like irritating vaginal discharge, painful pelvic inflammatory disease and potentially fatal ectopic pregnancy. The infections can also lead to longterm ailments like infertility and cervical cancer.

Makes you long for the “good old days” when no one had sex before marriage.  Yeah, I’m joking.

The president of the Planned Parenthood Federation of America, Cecile Richards, said the new findings “emphasize the need for real comprehensive sex education.”

“The national policy of promoting abstinence-only programs is a $1.5 billion failure,” Ms. Richards said, “and teenage girls are paying the real price.”

That’s what this administration does best.  Dream up an insanely stupid plan, throw billions of dollars at it, and then ignore the situation until it’s completely out of control.

Federal health officials recommend annual screening tests to detect chlamydia for sexually active women younger than 25. The disease agency also recommends that women ages 11 to 26 be fully vaccinated against HPV.

Excellent idea.  Getting our girls vaccinated against HPV will save them from the type of cervical cancer caused by HPV.  Anyone who says vaccinating girls against HPV is “giving them permission to have sex,” lives in a dream world.  I wonder how many young women who saved themselves for their wedding night acquire an STD from their brand new, and equally clueless, husband?

The Food and Drug Administration has said in a report that latex condoms are “highly effective” at preventing infection by chlamydia, trichomoniasis, H.I.V., gonorrhea and hepatitis B.

The agency noted that condoms seemed less effective against genital herpes and syphilis. Protection against human papillomavirus “is partial at best,” the report said.

I’ve said this before, and it’s worth saying again:  Education is the key.  Parents, educate yourselves so you can educate your children.  Things have changed since syphilis and gonorrhea.   Create an atmosphere in your home where your children feel free to talk to you, and where you notice if your children have gone quiet.

Fund comprehensive sex education in the schools.  Some children simply will not get the information they need at home, this is a reality.  Ignorance has an effect on all of us.

Teaching abstinence and responsibility to our children is fine, there’s nothing wrong with encouraging children to wait until they are emotionally ready for sex — but education cannot and should not stop there.  Look at where it’s gotten us…

24 Comments

  • Education is key not just to something as critically important as ones own body, but for everything else. You betcha you cannot take care of your body if you don’t know how. You can rarely move out of poverty without an education. And when you combine the lack of knowledge as to how to prevent yourself from becoming pregnant and then being forced into having a child (often a child having a child), you do nothing but perpetuate cycles of poverty (which, to be honest, I think is this administrations primary goal anyway).

    I do, however, take issue with the HPV vaccine. While my issue is obviously not in preventing cancer, I have a problem in that long term testing, efficacy and contraindications have not been studied. (Anyone remember Thalidomide?) And what made me that much more uncomfortable is that one state was trying to pass a law to force parents to give this shot to their female children.

    There are and have been discussions relating to shots that children get and while I understand that most have been beneficial beyond expectations, if I had a daughter, I would be very, very leery about giving them this shot, at this point in time.

  • You have a point, MizzJ. I don’t have daughters, so I really haven’t looked into how well the HPV vaccine has been tested.

    Passing a law forcing the vaccine is stupid. I think that was Texas. Der.

  • Yes m’am. It was indeed Texas.

    Made me wonder where the manufacturer of that drug was HQ’d.

  • Looks like there might be a market for the Hemp based RUC-ChastityBelts, with your choice of Dobson, Haggart or Hagee two color embroidered logo!!

  • MsJ,

    Miniblue’s Dr. has always been very crunchy – granola. I don’t mean it as an insult at all, it’s just a way to describe a very Cambridge, MA person.
    Anyhoo, I asked him about what he thought of the vaccine, bracing myself for condemnation, etc.
    He said in these times he felt any teenaged female who didn’t get it was being done a disservice.

    She got vaccinated.
    So I will hope there are no long term effects.

  • You’re a genius, RUC!

    Ugh…

  • true,

    Hopefully, the long term effect will be that she is protected from cervical cancer. :)

  • That’s what I’m hoping for.
    I picked up HPV from some clown, so now I have to be careful about PAP’s.

  • I guess that one’s rampant.
    Although I was never officially tested, I figured it had to be it because I had to go for a colposcopy about 10 years ago.

  • These clowns just tell their kids sex is icky and evil, and set them loose on the world — thinking that will protect them. Fuckwits.

  • Well, it can be icky and evil, if done right! (Just kidding) But apparently they’ve forgotten what hormones are…or they haven’t but really don’t give a crap. (I tend towards the latter, myself.)

  • BTW, TB, I hope the same for Miniblue!

  • TerryHusseinBinTurtle

    Abstinence…. definitely overrated.

  • Well, it should be icky and evil by choice. ;)

  • TerryHusseinBinTurtle

    As soon as the words “dangly man bits” appear on this thread – I’m off!

  • Miniblue has been able to ask me anything about sex. She’s even been given more info than she’d care to know at times.
    She hasn’t had sex yet. Believe me, I’d know. The kid tells me everything. Even when she cut school, she had to unload her guilt on me. She’s soooo different than I was at her age.
    ;)

  • That was a riot, wasn’t it, TtT?

  • Well, it appears you have a dilemma, TtT. ;)

  • Too funny. My youngest is texting me, saying it’s about time I got a man in my life. :D

    Is he trying to distract me from something?

  • Well, Zoo,
    We knew a divorcee who was a friend of my wife’s mother. When we were in Germany, we invited them over and they came, she as an ‘escort’. We took a week off and took them through France, Switzerland, the Schwartz Wald and Austria, then back through Italy and Geneva.
    She died 18 months later from cancer, but in her will said that we had fulfilled her life in that single week. she had no inheritance to leave us, but those words meant more than a million dollars.
    Bottom line is that it is never to late to enrich your life.

  • I agree, Walt. :)

    Thank you for sharing the story, it sounds like a grand time.

  • It was a grand experience, Mary Claire (first and middle name!) was Kay’s father’s secretary. Kay’s father suffered from Alzheimer’s and MC supported Kay’s mother when Kay was not able to be there at the homestead.

  • I knew nothing of abstinence till I turned 40

  • Briseadh na Faire

    I gave up abstinence for Lent.


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