August 28th: “You’re The Birthday Boy or Girl”

In our Sechny/Schneider world of Simpsons-speak, it is traditional for family members to sing a birthday song (sung by a defective animatronic kangaroo) from a particular Simpsons episode: “You’re the birthday, you’re the birthday, you’re the birthday boy or girl!”

Today should have been our nephew Adam’s 27th birthday.

I remember some parts of the day(s) he was born. Wayne’s poor sister Judy was in labor for about 36 hours. At the time, I was still working for the horse insurance company, which had merged with a general insurance agency in Huntington, Long Island. I can easily flash back to the feeling/image of sitting in my office cubicle late at night on August 27th, keeping in sporadic contact with my brother Bobby while catching up on work. At about 10:00 that night I gave up and went back to my apartment. No word during the night.

In the meantime, my parents were on a two-week European tour. The insurance agency where I worked also included a travel agency (the whole company was owned and operated by three generations of the Gundermann family, and one of the daughters ran the travel agency), through which my parents had arranged their tour.

So the next day, when word finally came from Bobby that Judy had, at last given birth to Adam Mark Sechny, Teri Gundermann and I scrambled to get a telegram (hard to believe, nowadays) to my parents. Teri had their itinerary, but, for some reason which I no longer remember, the itinerary had been changed, so Teri had to contact the tour company to find out which country (Italy, it turned out) and city (I’ve forgotten) they were in. My parents were at dinner with their tour group when the telegram was delivered to the head of the tour. Everyone there got to hear the news as the tour guide, after asking my parents to join him as he stood at the front of the dining room, read the telegram aloud, “Mildred and Stephen Sechny, you are now the grandparents of a 10-lb, 12-1/2-ounce grandson, Adam Mark Sechny!” …and there was much rejoicing…

Adam with Grandpa Sechny

Adam with Grandma Sechny and sister Emily

“Beautiful Family”


Adam

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11 thoughts on “August 28th: “You’re The Birthday Boy or Girl”

    • Judy always used the analogy of trying to squeeze out a bag of potatoes.

      I’m just so sad that my developing closeness with Adam was cut off so abruptly and so finally. We were really beginning to bond in our family/office relationship.

      • Those shoulders could qualify as a bag of potatoes! Zoo Jr was 9.5 lbs, and that was quite enough, thankyouverymuch. ;)

        I celebrate that your closeness with Adam had some time to bloom.

    • I know of no way that we could “move” your comments to the other thread. You can copy all your posts and re-paste them onto the Watering hole, and then we could delete these comments from this thread.

      There might be a way to do what you want, but I don’t know how to do it. :)

  1. Jane, I am so very sorry for your loss. This tribute you so lovingly wrote is wonderful.

    • Thanks, crypto and everyone.

      I’m going to try to gather together more bits and pieces of memories and stories, not just my own, but those of his friends and family, and post them next March 26th.

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